X does want to see little one and he wants to keep updated so he sees it easier to contest the VRO.
I'm five months now, so only court in July. The violence restraining order I got from his hostility and aggression. He never actually laid a hand on me (by the books).
So all he sees to gain out of this contested case is the right to be able to contact me and I guess be around as soon as she arrives.
I'm just scared after the VRO case and we then go to family court that he gets overnight rights, or weekends so on. Just the fact that he can see her is bad enough.
Either way that's 2 court cases. So just trying to prepare myself. His lawyer has even told him to call witnesses for the July case. I have no idea what he stands to gain even with witnesses. They would probably try and say they never saw aggression.
So much more! See I'm so confused and missing enough brain cells with just being pregnant. I dont need this.
I am currently still pregnant with my first. I separated from my x when I was three months pregnant due to violence and aggression. I then filed for a restraining order which he has since contested. I am due to appear in court about the time the baby is due. At the time of filing for my restraint, I found out (off the record) that he had a history of assault charges, drug possession, drink driving and so forth. We where never married or engaged; only together for about seven months. He is a very aggressive person with a growing unstability about him; my thoughts are he's on drugs or steroids. What are his rights once my little one comes? If he fights in court what is his best case and my worst case scenario?
So please to anyone that can help. I'm so confused.