Parental Responsibility and Days off School:
Then 3 months later children mention how they were out of school for a week with athsma attacks and never saw a doctor and ex says they are exaggerating it was only 3 days.
What about when this only starts occurring 5 years after seperation and has never happened before.
I'm not excusing rude horrific communication what I am pointing out is that its not only fathers who are wrong as the discussion seems to be heading that way.
many lives with parents abuse non lives with parents in emails and cross examine kids on there return from time spent with non lives with parents and then withold children based on assumptions they have concluded from this.
in regards to emails, what about when Father sends email re christmas holidays and gets response from ex that the only reason you have chosen dates are because you found out her and new partner made plans already for those times and discusses about how they already have plans for every holiday for the rest of the year and when you get to the bottom of the email you realise the ex has cut and paste the response from the previous email but forgotten to delete the evidence she received your email and sent it to her new partner who answered and sent to her to copy paste and send to the father.
So when you reply by thanking response but notifying of current orders and advising the information does not comply with current orders, you get letter from exes legal aid solicitor that as you are causing conflict they will be seeking no contact orders and when you get to court judge errs on the side of caution and makes no contact orders based on your supposed continual conflict IE you refer to and remind of court orders.
stuff happens you hang up if they become abusive, you dont respond to abusive emails and texts etc
If the child has a sniffle whilst in your care you take them to the doctor and get a written report and notify ex and supply copy of report.
Keep your nose clean and ex wont have anything to be abusive about and when they are it will be for no reason and you will have had proof and have provided them with same.