Can the CSA take arrears directly from your wages before you receive them?:
That is to say, the threat of money being witheld or even stopped if my husband cannot see the children he pays for.
I do not apologise for doing what i consider to be the right thing for us. At the end of the day, my husbands ex wife was only interested in maintaining free money. By threatening her and even playing psychological warfare that I would employ my husband and leave her with nothing, she appears to be using the children as a means to keeping the payments ongoing. This result cuts through all the red tape of going months and years through the courts at the expense of the heartache of a good father and innocent children.
It's a different and perhaps an unorthodox way to get a result but I never intended breaking the law or leaving children without a means to survive. We will keep paying the ex wife through CSA and we will continue to threaten that if she ever again stops the children from their natural relationship with their father, the money will stop. It works for us because we appealed to the nature of the beast, not waited fortheinaction of theinefficiency of beaurocratical red tape.