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Post #4099 by cooldad on January 18th 2008, 11:10 AM (in topic “"Parental kidnapping season": Article blames separated fathers' support groups”)

"Parental kidnapping season": Article blames separated fathers' support groups:

Hi Jon.

I'm saying woman do get labelled as abductors, as my cousin was, but I dare say men are victimised as a greater percentage.

There is definitely bias everywhere including within the system.

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Post #4039 by cooldad on January 17th 2008, 6:36 PM (in topic “Mothers and fathers”)

Mothers and fathers:

That's exactly where I was coming from artemis. Thank you.

Our son loves both of us regardless' and that's the main thing I guess.

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Post #4026 by cooldad on January 17th 2008, 3:08 PM (in topic “Mothers and fathers”)

Mothers and fathers:

I was curious to see what the come back would be as I had conversation with a couple of mothers the other night and that was the main topic and that is how they felt.

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Post #4023 by cooldad on January 17th 2008, 2:12 PM (in topic “What Stops Men From Having Shared Care?”)

What Stops Men From Having Shared Care?: are men worse parents?

Jon Pearson said
Cooldad - is what you are saying is that men are worse parents than women - is that where you are coming from?

You think all the courts in the land make the fairest decisions about family matters and child support.

Then you propose the idea of wrongness and people being made to suffer. (By whom and how?)

Then the concept of you knowing mothers who pay child support - have you any idea of the statistics?

Is this what you meant to say?

Is this what you mean?
Of course not Jon.

I'm a good dad, and a good cook and can do everything a woman can do in a home, but the ex is better qualified I can't argue with that. I pay child support and provide many extras to my son and his mother, men are definitely not worse parents.

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Post #4021 by cooldad on January 17th 2008, 12:37 PM (in topic “"Parental kidnapping season": Article blames separated fathers' support groups”)

"Parental kidnapping season": Article blames separated fathers' support groups:

Not necessarily Jon.

I have a cousin who abducted her six children, and that was the magistrates comment. So in all fairness, it does go both ways.

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Post #4014 by cooldad on January 17th 2008, 12:00 PM (in topic “Shared time with my son”)

Shared time with my son:

thanks jadzia thats something to take into consideration

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Post #3990 by cooldad on January 16th 2008, 10:23 PM (in topic “Fun but inexpensive activities”)

Fun but inexpensive activities:

If you have water restrictions in your area, going to the pool is cheap and fun, kids love the water plus its good for you health wise and you could take a packed lunch also to save costs

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Post #3989 by cooldad on January 16th 2008, 10:07 PM (in topic “Mothers and fathers”)

Mothers and fathers

I think mothers from way back have been the ones to care for the children, whilst the man of the house would work and make a living for the family.

Mothers have had more rights, I suppose, because they carried the child and endured great pain in giving birth; that is the greatest bonding you could get.

The father needs to be 100% involved in that bonding, helping and nurturing the child and the mother from the start.

The mother is naturally closest to the child when you look at it that way.

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Post #3988 by cooldad on January 16th 2008, 9:49 PM (in topic “What Stops Men From Having Shared Care?”)

What Stops Men From Having Shared Care?:

There are many different circumstances why fathers don't get equal shared time.

I don't think the judges and legal system take sides with mothers. From my experience they are fair and, if the correct evidence is put forward, they make the fairest decisions.

The one who has done the wrong thing in the relationship will always be the one to suffer more and it's not always the fathers.

Magistrates are not stupid; they work it out. I know of a lot of mothers that pay child support.

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Post #3986 by cooldad on January 16th 2008, 9:02 PM (in topic “Taylor & Barker [2007] FamCA 1246 19/10/2007”)

Taylor & Barker [2007] FamCA 1246 19/10/2007 :

What happens if the ex decides to move away from me can I have the driving shared as I do all of it now? How far is she alllowed to move?

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