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Post #50937 by Pebbs on May 15th 2014, 3:40 PM (in topic “Financial Statement for the Bank”)

Financial Statement for the Bank

My husband and I have separated. We have both agreed that I pay him x amount of money and I get to keep the property.
I need a top up on the loan to be able to do this. We went to the bank yesterday and they said I can do this but they required a Financial Statement that is stamped by the court.
Am I able to do this myself? Is there a form I can download?  I asked my solicitor and the charge is $3000 to do this and also the conveyancing.

I need to do this asap but before spending thousands, thought I would ask here first if I have any other cheaper options.

Thanks in advance.

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Post #50327 by Pebbs on November 20th 2013, 6:02 PM (in topic “SRL or Barrister...that is the question”)

SRL or Barrister...that is the question:

I have made another post with the outcome. Finally it's over.  :)

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Post #50326 by Pebbs on November 20th 2013, 6:00 PM (in topic “Finally it's over! Outcome of trial.”)

Finally it's over! Outcome of trial.

Our journey through the FCC has finally come to an end.  My husband and I are the grandparents of a beautiful nearly 12 year old girl. She came in to our care when she was 3 after her mother (our daughter) lost her life in a car accident.  The father denied he was the father and there had not been a relationship with her. I am not sure how much detail I can give in respects to him but I will say his lifestyle is not one to be proud of.  Our family, including our daughter and grand-daughter moved interstate a year before the accident.
Our introduction to the courts came unexpectedly 3 years ago when out of the blue we were served with papers. We engaged a lawyer and the first step was to have the matter transferred to our State which went smoothly. We dont live in the big city so we were on the circuit and the FM we had was only filling in until the regular FM was back from leave. When the regular FM came back he agreed with all the first FM had ordered such as, DNA testing, father to do random drug testing, to attend a family report writer in person, and gave leave for certain subpoenas. The subpoenas revealed a history (some 40 pages) of charges.and lots of other things.
The father ignored the requests for drug testing, and didnt attend in person to the Family Report writer, and I believe the FM was less than impressed with his lack of disclosure. The outcome was that things should remain as they were.
Father appeals and wins. So it starts all over again with a new FM.  We cant afford to continue with our lawyer and have to do it ourselves. The father is funded by legal aid for everything.  To say my health hadnt been affected up until the trial would be a lie, but it really started to go downhill when we (me, as I did all the work) became SRLs. The new FM seemed to not want to listen to us. My repeated requests for the father to have a psychological assessment were ignored. The fathers past was his past and had nothing to do with his present were the words of the FM. An ICL was appointed and our grand-daughter was to see a child psychologist. The child psychologist gave a glowing report of the child and my husband and I. On this information the ICL recommended the father start corresponding with the child by way of a letter once a week for a month and then phone calls and then introducing the child to the father. The FM agreed to this despite our submission that the no-one knows the father and he hasnt been seen by anyone,  that there was a need from the evidence provided and it would be in the childs best interest, that he be seen by either a Family Report writer or psychologist. The FM told us we had 20 minutes to re-read the psychologist report and he would read our submission.
In the lead up to the hearings the stress levels rise and headaches do occur. Its quite a few hours traveling for us so if the hearing is in the morning, as it was this time; we have to leave the day before. The night before the hearing my headache was quite intense and pain relief wasnt working.
Luckily my husband is good speaker and was filling that role for me. By the time the FM told us to take 20 minutes to re-read the report I could barely think. I walked out of the court room; tears streaming down my face and my husband looked at me and made a decision to go home. He informed the ICL and someone else. I dont remember much of the long drive home. My doctor was very concerned.  The stress had caused my blood pressure to sky rocket and I had a small brain bleed. I am a thin person and my BP has always been on the low side. Stress can be a killer!
So the FM made the orders, and the transcript indicates they all werent too happy we left early that day. Two months went by and no letters. They werent being sent because they didnt comply. Finally one arrives and my grand-daughter refuses to take it. She does the same with the second one. The ICL halts the letters. At the next hearing the judge is not impressed as he doesnt know what is going on so he orders us to explain by affidavit the reasons why things have not progressed.  Two days later the father demands a phone call. I notify the ICL of all my concerns. The call goes ahead and is a complete disaster. My grand-daughter refuses to speak to him and breaks down on the floor. Father doesnt care and insists I make her get on the phone. His father gets on the phone as well. I end the call and immediately contact ICL with the details of what happened.
Next hearing FM orders child psychologist again and set date for trial. Child psychologist report shows child has anxiety from what has happened and ICL now recommends no contact.
I dont think Ive ever studied so much and the help I received through this forum gave me the confidence to walk into that court room without a hint of nerves. I was well prepared and ready to fight for my grand-daughter. The fathers legal aid had been stopped and he had no representation. Finally the people who thought it was a good idea to introduce father and child without knowing anything about the father would finally see for themselves. It only took 1 day, well really not even a day to order that our grand-daughter can make that choice herself if and when she wants any contact.
I will never know what the FM, the ICL or even the child psychologist thoughts were on that day regarding the father but I can say; if they had listened to my requests for the father to have a psychological assessment I can confidently say the child would not have suffered and gone through what she did and I probably would have been saved the brain bleed.  In my opinion the FM and ICL made some wrong decisions based on the best interest of the child, because they failed to get the evidence to support that. Although the end result was what I fought for, I am terribly angry and disillusioned with everything else. Of course this is quite a clinical version, imagine the reading if it were detailed!

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Post #50320 by Pebbs on November 17th 2013, 8:15 PM (in topic “SRL or Barrister...that is the question”)

SRL or Barrister...that is the question:

Well final hearing is tomorrow so I will find out then.
I'm not feeling nervous at the moment but I'm sure that will change in the morning.
Three long years is coming to an end and I hope after this my mind will be free to think about other things.
I will let you all know the outcome.  

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Post #50312 by Pebbs on November 14th 2013, 3:07 PM (in topic “SRL or Barrister...that is the question”)

SRL or Barrister...that is the question

I am a SRL and final hearing/trial is next week. The other party was represented by Legal Aid however they filed a Notice of Withdrawal as Lawyer last week. The other party hasnt filed a Notice of Address for Service. I am assuming the other party will be a SRL now although His Honour made it quite clear all SRL were to let each party and his associate know before a certain date which was weeks ago.
My question is, could the other party turn up with a barrister?
I know this possibily isnt an issue but it would still be nice to know if they can do this without notice.

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Post #50302 by Pebbs on November 11th 2013, 11:22 AM (in topic “Minute of Orders”)

Minute of Orders

I am doing my minute of orders for final hearing. The history of the other party is; has never been had anything to do with child in ANY aspect, which was their choice. Child is 12.
In the other partys initial application he was seeking equal shared parental responisbilty and visitation and phone contact, however in his amended application he has forgone the equal shared responsibily and is only seeking visitation (monthy?) and phone contact.
To me, this comes across as he only wants to see child occassionaly  but doesnt want to be part of childs life when it concerns money, schooling, clothing etc, hes quite happy for us to do that. I would like things to remain as they are.
 In my minute of orders all I have so far is that I have sole parental responsibility and child continues to live with me. Is that enough or should I add more?

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Post #50299 by Pebbs on November 8th 2013, 4:47 PM (in topic “Chronology for Final hearing”)

Chronology for Final hearing :

Thank you kalimnadancer, your information has helped. I am still a little confused with the chronology part. Their solicitor only listed documentation that has been filed. Am I to list and date information such as -  moved interstate,  first letter received by child,  first phone communication,  attended upon child psychologist,  etc, or is it stictly about the documents filed to the court?

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Post #50296 by Pebbs on November 8th 2013, 4:01 PM (in topic “Chronology for Final hearing”)

Chronology for Final hearing

I have my final hearing coming up very soon. I am required to file the following -1.            a case outline setting out:

a)      a precise minute of the final orders sought;


b)      a relevant chronology;


c)      a list of affidavits and applications and/or responses intended to be relied upon at trial.





What is meant by 'a relevant chronology'? I received paperwork from the lawyer working for the applicant and all he has done is dated and listed affidavits which have been filed by both parties eg: 11/11/11 affidavit filed by XXX.  So do I have to do the same? I was going to write a chronology, dating and listing the events that had occurred (much like a history in an affidavit) but I guess that is not what the FM wants?

The other side, in their paperwork have also detailed S60CC considerations. Is this part of the 'precise minute of the final orders sought'?

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Post #50133 by Pebbs on September 11th 2013, 9:28 PM (in topic “Subpoena question.”)

Subpoena question.:

I'll try and explain as best I can.
The other party has stated things in affidavits that have been lies. The whole case is based on lies such as a marriage (supposedly of a religious kind), supposedly hiring a hall afterwards, flying interstate and more. I know this doesn't make sense to anyone as they don't know the case details and I can't go into detail here, but if I can show that these things didn't happen as the other party says then I feel it would help the outcome.
That is why I was asking if I could request more information, such as, name and address of hall, name of airline, and so on?

I read somewhere'Before you request a subpoena, you should attempt to get the required document or evidence by, for example, asking the person to provide it to you.'


I don't know anymore what to do. I know the other party is manipulating everyone and giving the chance I can prove it.

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Post #50131 by Pebbs on September 11th 2013, 8:49 PM (in topic “Subpoena question.”)

Subpoena question.

I am a SRL in the Federal Circuit Court. I wish to request the issue of subpoena's as we are going to trial, however I need more information (such as date, address, etc ) before I can do this.
My question is, can I ask the other party's solicitor for the information I require so that I can issue subpoena's?

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