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MEDIATION PROCESS - Court Ordered

I am not sure if I had posted in the correct area as I had no response to my post so I thought I would try this area.
Mediators please advise me if I am not using this site correctly or is best posted in another area.

I have had finally after years of Family Court and a Final hearing 2011 achieved Family Court Orders. These have been in place since and "no end date".

In the Family Court Orders it states parties shall attend mediation Sept 2012 to discuss any issues arising from the orders, unless both parties agree otherwise.
We have not been able to agree,

Both of us "parents"  attended  R e l a t i o n s h i p s  Australia recently "pre-mediation" for lead up to the final "mediation" around Sept 2012 as per orders.

I received a reply from the mediation people saying after careful consideration decided mediation is not suitable in this case.
It also goes on to say as per mediation guidelines cannot give explanations as to why.
They did enclose a certificate which can be filed for parenting orders with the Family Court.

I am besides myself to know why mediation was declined, also this lack of feedback as to why leaves me wondering what I am to do next, and now I have no idea of how to move forward.
        Can I demand mediators to write a reply as to why mediation was not suitable?
        Can I ask the Family Court to ask the mediators as to why mediation was not suitable?
        I am now stumped, and I would like to ask on how I can move forward now?
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Mediation is in a sense Dispute resolution so if they believe that there is nothing to 'dispute' then they will just issue a certificate.
What sorts of issues are you taking about ?
Are the orders not being followed correctly ?
Believe me that there is plenty to 'dispute' and the fact it was Family Court Ordered is why I am bewildered that they just issued a certificate.
"What sorts of issues are you taking about ?" Extended Time, Money, Harrassment, etc etc etc.
"Are the orders not being followed correctly ?" No, there are plenty of issues here as well, again to many to list.
Can you put in a contravention of orders if the other party is not following the court orders ?
Applying for a contravention of orders is NOT a good idea as it just agrevates.
The issue here and advice I would like is concerning the mediation.
Why the mediators decided it was not able to mediate on.
The mediators have told you they can't give you a reason why mediation is unsuitable so there is no point keep trying to find out why they made that decision.  You will keep going in circles.

They gave you a certificate.  Go to court if you feel the issues are worth it.  
I guess the mediators thought that either the issues weren't worth mediating or figured that both parties were not going to budge from their point of view therefore they would be unable to help.
I guess you would have to ask them the reasons.
I think the whole mediation process is to keep any issues out of an over crowded Family Court.
However I feel the lack of an explaination in the mediation process makes it differcult to know how far apart or where you at as far as resolving any issues.
It does make it difficult, could you perhaps talk more with your ex about coming to a compromise about the issues at hand ?
Perhaps via email instead of face to face if you find that difficult.
Yes very difficult, because its not about us (me and my x) its all about the children.
My understanding is that the Mediation was set up by the Family Court in the Court Orders because in the past history showed "NO" to a compromise.

Lack of Mediation feedback makes it difficult to know how to move forward, and I surpose I was hoping that this forum may be able to give me some insight, or info on Family Law if I could ask for an explaination or what steps.
Hence the questiions :
Can I demand mediators to write a reply as to why mediation was not suitable?
Can I ask the Family Court to ask the mediators as to why mediation was not suitable?
I am now stumped, and I would like to ask on how I can move forward now?

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