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Has anyone been through false child abuse and domestic violence allegations?

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Background history… My ex has made false dv and child abuse allegations to police and DoCS for 11 yrs now. The firat was a DV appication alleging I was sexually abusing my children. However, the Magistrate dismissed this as she was dropping the children off with me when it suited her.  However, he allowed her claims to proceed and I had the option of paying $10,000+ to defend them, or "accept without admission", which i did. Since then, she has made three dvo applications. I just have to accept them, because if I pay to defend them, she can just make another application the week after amd the week after and the week after…

This has been on and off. There have also been times when she has stopped me from seeing the kids for months at a time, using the DVO to stop me from contacting them. She claims I raped her, broke her jaw, broke her arm etc etc and hasnt had to prove anything. She also told the police and DoCS that I threw my daughter against a wall and knocked her out, in which she had to be taken to hospital. Police investigated and found that she had never taken my daughter there for anything. And it goes on and on like this.

Two years ago, my ex stopped following our orders. We just had new ones put in place  for 5 mths (after months of more dv accusations).  I filed a breach. She made child abuse allegations against myself, my family amd my friends and even their children. Mag Baumann banned me from seeing my children, even though my ex did not submit any evidence. Luckily, i got a solicitor and she was able to arrange supervised contact. He claims were that I took naked pics of my kids, masturbated them, assaulted them, that my mother.showed her.breasts to friends, that my girlfriends son rubbed his penis in my sons face etc etc. At the family report, she confesed to the report writer that her ex boyfriend has been abusive to her and the kids and that he drank all the time (confirmed by my kids). Yet, the report writef described ME as demonstrating Separation Engendered Violence because I hurled abuse at her 3 yrs prior in txt msges. He recommended i only have the kids 3/4 weekends (less time than what I had).

She hs refused to submit any affidavits, yet these judges continue to give her extensions. Its rediculous.

She took the kids to heaps of doctors nd psychologists. They made reports of all kinds of rubbish eg. one gave my son a toy snake which he buried in a sandpit. The psych described it as a "fallic symbol" suggesting sexual abuse. Another psych (one of her friends) laimed my children had told her I raped them. When my soliciftor organised independant reports, this was proven to be false and that the mother had coerced the kids to make the cllaims.

How can people get away with this? My kids have run away from home several times just to see me. She calls the police and says I am abusing them. This is all documented nd will be uploaded to to demonstrate how the courts operate.

The reality has set in that I may be banned entirely from seeing my kids, as is happening to a lot of parents lately.
Has anyone else been through this? Its like a crazy Hollywood movie.
You need real help with this one.

Google Ada Evans chambers and look up a barrister called Mario Licha. He will give you some free advice in the first instance. Super Mario knows this area very well.

DO NOT BS HIM - he can smell it a mile away!

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Sadly DVmethod, this is all too common a tactic to use, and the recent Family Law Amendment (Family Violence and Other Measures) Act 2011 will only make things worse.

The definition of domestic/family violence has been watered down to be so broad that anything can be claimed as DV by a disgruntled partner looking for sole cus tody of your kids.

And on top of that it has removed all penalties for false allegations and perjury in Family Court proceedings.

So expect to see a whole lot more single (by choice) mothers and male suicides going up until we can get a government in which will change this god awful corrupt system… yeah don't hold your breath…
This is insane. Ive been accused of rape and breaking her jaw and arm. She doesnt even have to produce anything, no hospital records or anything.
And even though shes stopped me from seeing our kids, thats not considered DV, even though it says it is in the legislation.
So basically, you dont have to follow family court orders as long as you make abuse claims?
DVMethod - the use of the new definition of family violence was recently used where they claimed that withholding the child met the new definition. I think it was a Melbourne case and from all accounts the magistrate had a quiet word in the ear of the solicitor who tried to run this argument.

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Carra & Schultz [2012] FMCAfam 930 (31 August 2012) Is the case referred to

Yes. Abuse claims are you 'get out of jail free' card. You neither have to justify them or be worried about being caught out lying, because there are no penalties for doing so. So why wouldn't you?
Bruce it seems like you may be posting from Gotham City, and the Joker is posting on your behalf

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I actually tried to edit this once I posted it, to no avail…

Obviously only devious criminals would resort to such deceitful behaviour…

My point was that sadly there is nothing to lose by committing perjury in the Family Court…

Of course this is not a tactic that any ethical citizens (or parents considering the best interests of the child) would employ, my apologies.
I appreciate your clarification Bruce. But there is a lot to loose if you commit perjury in the FMC or the FCoA, you risk getting caught out and even if you commit perjury for a better good, for lack of a better word, you risk not seeing your kids.

Has happened plenty of times before, Judges and magistrates are not dills, they have heard everything and will know in most cases when the porky pies are on the table.

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