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4mydaughter said
And that includes members of the 'executive'
It appears you could not resist a smart remark. If you are referring to the SRL-R Execs then their credentials already appear on the site but can also be checked through admin.

You have had considerable correspondence with moderators over this issue. You are one of the people that is responsible for this type of warning to be issued.


 Senior Site Moderator and Administrator
Sisyphus - Cool. I'm out of here.

I don't need your patronising bullsh*t!

Please delete my account. This is the second time I have asked and its not been done.

Cheerio.

4MYDAUGHTER
4mydaughter said
Sisyphus - Cool. I'm out of here. I don't need your patronising bullshit! Please delete my account. This is the second time I have asked and its not been done. Cheerio.
You have not requested admin to delete your account  a moderator cannot delete your account as you were informed per your previous request. Despite your previous statements your have still been logging on and posting, that is contradictory.

It was not patronizing bs. What you have previously received both on and off site were a consensus from moderators to both tone down and be more circumspect. The fact that you have done neither and your recent posts is an indication of why the moderators had justifiable concerns.



 Senior Site Moderator and Administrator

Account and post deletions

Great!  Another person who comes out of nowhere and now owns the site and is calling the shots.

I object strongly to the deletion of any account and their associated posts.  Better to make the account inaccessible.

The bulk deletion of a members posts, on a whim, shows a great disrespect for all the other members.  It breaks chains and threads of communication and makes reading threads difficult at best and nonsensical at worst.

People need to take responsibility for their actions and their consequences.  It is important to realise that when people enter into an agreement (such as participating on this site) there are expectations and conditions on them (as much as they want to think there are only on other people).

If 4mydaughter no longer wants to participate than there is an onus him not to participate.  In other words if he doesn't want to participate then stop coming back and logging in and posting.  No one is forcing him or twisting his arm to do this.  Pack, move on and don't look back.
4mydaughter,

There are times when one needs to step back, listen and think….de novo, site rules.

What purpose does the FAMILY LAW WEB Guide serve?

I dont understand , hasnt 4MYDaughter been helped considerably by the site members for their own case?

Rarghhhhhhhhhh!!!!!!!!!!!!

Han Solo routine "We're all fine here, thanks. How are you?" *weapons fire* "It was a boring conversation anyway!"

Testament to Ungratefulness

People have helped 4mydaughter.

Perhaps 4mydaughter's reaction is a testament to ungratefulness.

Some people expect to enter a 'building' and be calling the shots and making changes within 5 minutes.

When they do not get their way they quickly turn against those who welcomed and helped them.
I find 4mydaughters attitude incomprehensible. I dont know whether it is arrogance, immaturity or an ego problem. He came to this site for help and by his own admission received considerable assistance from people that were part of this site.

The facts are simple, were it not for the existence of this site and the moderators on this site having some control over the materials and those that provide assistance he would not have received that help.

Now he wants to grandstand and make disparaging remarks about the very people that ultimately were responsible for his being able to receive assistance.

Really  a wham bam than you maam' attitude.

I can understand a level of frustration at the moderators but 4mydaughter is being hot headed.

My suggestion is to walk away and come back when you dont find it so hard to roll with the punches, sometimes, and not always I can do that. Squabbling when your mad doesnt get you in a better place.

4mydaughter I suggest you take a break from here.

Rarghhhhhhhhhh!!!!!!!!!!!!

Han Solo routine "We're all fine here, thanks. How are you?" *weapons fire* "It was a boring conversation anyway!"
The admin on this site who i have been in contact with have been unbelievably understanding and helpful, and they do it all for free. They deserve nothing but thanks and certificates of helpfulness…..

People need to take a look at where they might have been if they had not found this place.

Im VERY outspoken on other forums on all kinds of matters including post deletions and private requests made public… I really do believe in free speech, but……. there is a big difference between voicing your opinion and trying to call the shots in a way which MIGHT cause someone damage in a legal sense in relation to children….

On here, I am not like i am on the other places i visit, on here i shut up and listen…….and learn

I can see the need for modorators to keep a close eye on this place… It is in the interest of all those poor people who are going through the absolute hell of being in a break up involving children,

thats my opinion, im not knocking anyone…..

They must find it difficult, those who have taken authority as the truth, rather than truth as the authority

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