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What is the attitude that you should show towards the other party?

Judges expect people to realize its only a game.

Judges hate people getting upset - it shows them how bad the system is.

Judges are looking at CHARACTER not just the facts.

They use all sorts of techniques to look at CHARACTER.

Get offended but not angry - express disgust using humour - don't abuse anyone , threaten or cry.

 Maybe I am not explaining myself well enough
Try to find compassion and disbelief that a person could behave the way your partner's ex does. Let that come through. Don't pass judgements, talk about the reality, without being negative.

It's not about lying, it's about showing your maturity.

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Its natural for your ex to make allegations in court.
it what they do, their lawyers encourage and barristers try to use. Judges understand this - except the ones who see themselves as 'heros'

if you react to the C**P then they take that AS CONFIRMATION THAT YOU ARE A VIOLENT CRIMINAL.

Find a happy space, while the abuse and lies are dished out. Deny , state facts- DON'T GET ANGRY (otherwise you are a potential murderer)

THIS IS ONE OF THE MOST DIFFICULT THINGS YOU WILL EVER GO THROUGH.

 Maybe I am not explaining myself well enough
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