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My ex has been compensated more than adequately during the property settlement and she receives a reasonable amount of child support payment. I'm therefore questioning whether it's appropriate for me to continue to service all other bills at 50%. I am considering at least lowering them to reflect my care percentage (40%). Is this fair? The expenses are mainly school expenses (non-private), sporting fees and music tuition. I've already agreed to stay at 50% for the sports and music but what is appropriate for the rest.
The reason for reviewing is that during property settlement I chose to 're-buy' the marital home and now have a mortgage upwards of $600k. My ex was compensated heavily and owes less than $50k on her house. Our living costs are vastly different and there is no argument from my ex when I confirm with her that she has greater disposable income than I do and this is primarily driven by mortgage and CSA costs.
Anyone feeel like sharing their opinion on this