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Resolving daily conflicts after the dust settles for the benefits of the child

Conflict often continues after all the legal affairs have been completed. Children need to be supported and loved by both parents and not become the battle ground of parental unfinished emotional business. It is time to move the separated family to collaborative and constructive communications; this often means you need to learn skills of problem solving, effective communication and anger management.
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